Sunday, November 13, 2011

He's Always Been the One

When Britney was married and after her divorce, he was always there. It seems as though it's always been Jason. He's that friend you never really notice because you're always looking at other people. Women, especially, have a tendency to miss what's right in front of their faces.
It seems Jason simply bid his time until Britney was not only available but stable. Clearly, he stayed around even through the bad times and there had to be a reason for that. Sure, he might have been a friend, though as he never really involved himself in Britney's affairs they couldn't have been that close. No, he had to be waiting for the right time to make his move.
Obviously, I don't know what it took for Britney to realize she had everything she wanted right there in front of her, I don't think any man really knows how a woman finally figures it out. It seems they enjoy the chase or being chased. Between her marriage and this current relationship, Britney definitely had a few boyfriends (and potentially a few one nighters), so she seemed to be looking for something.
Do women not want someone who desires them, who's always there, who's trustworthy and stable? Would they rather chase a guy who's either not interested or playing not interested? Britney went after some Jewish model and a paparazzo, two relationships that had no chance from the beginning. All the while, Jason lurked in the background. 99 times out of 100, it seems that's the guy who ultimately gets chosen Why does it take so long?
Let's say it's not the chase. Then what, is it a search for someone better? Maybe it's the excitement of unexplored possibilities. Is Jason exciting or dangerous? That kinda guy never is. Clearly, if a woman is looking for a wild time, she'll have to look elsewhere.
It's amazing how stubborn women are. They just want it all, even if it means wasting years trying to find it.

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